31-year-old woman installs secret cameras around apartment with boyfriend, he finds them yet she denies spying on him: “Now I don’t feel comfortable in my own home”

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    M37 caught girlfriend F31 secretly recording me

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    My girlfriend was leaving to a concert with her sister. Before she left she set up at least 3 devices to record just audio. I found the 3 set up one was in our bedroom one in our bathroom and the other in the back room of our house. When she
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    came home she acted like nothing happened and she just stalled until I had to try and get sleep. The next morning I woke up went through the morning routine and once she was up and going I asked for her phone she started to hand it over until I asked for her passcode. (She
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    has always had access to mine at anytime and any point) She pulled back and asked why. That when I told her I had busted her and she instantly denied it. I told her I took pics to prove it and showed her. She keep denying, until I walked away. Then admitted it to me, and
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    she knew she was busted because she heard on the recordings me freaking out once I found the first. Now I don't feel comfortable in my own house. She invaded my privacy in the one place I feel it should be the safest. I told her we are not together anymore and moved her out of the bedroom.
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    MentalPlectrum Wait, so she's always had unfettered access to your phone but not you to hers? Major red flag.
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    And now she's secretly recording you?
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    She has severe trust issues - possibly because she's cheating, maybe because she's been cheated on in the past... I'd suspect the former.
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    She clearly doesn't trust you, and now you no longer trust her. How can it be anything other than over?
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    Different Guess_5407 NTA for how you reacted - if she doesn't trust you then probably best to end relationship.
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    Exotic-flavors Cheating projection.
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    Deadzen A thief will suspect others in stealing. Edit: of? I dunno
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    ProfessorxVile Moving her out of the bedroom is a start, but what you really need is to move her out of the house entirely. And change the locks.
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    tool672 I'm a big shoe's on the other foot guy. What would she do if she found out you bugged her car or her place, and when caught lied to her face about it.
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    Ya, pretty sure you'd be single awfully fast
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    Organic Security5742 NTA but your gf is nuts. Get outnow and don"t waste any more time on her.
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    CrazyMinute69 • 2d ago NTA Why was she recording you?
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    nickwoes So that's also most likely a crime as well.
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    Mental-Ad-1043 She's projecting - so she thinks you are up to no good because that's more than what she is up to. NTA .... Run, run as fast as you can.
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    MicaJoycell That's a major violation of trust. Definitely the right call to split up.
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    Xarius86 She's probably the one cheating to be that paranoid about it.

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